Taking Control of Aging: Avoiding the Nursing Home
Practical strategies to maintain your health & independence well into old age.
You're 84, still living in your own home, cooking your meals, and enjoying time with loved ones. It's not just luck, though genetics certainly factor in. It’s also about choices made decades earlier. A nursing home, for many, signifies the quintessential sign of losing independence in old age.
Nursing homes don’t have the best reputations, but the reality is that there are many good nursing homes where loving, caring staff take care of those whose independence at home is limited. And while the scary stories make the news, I’ve cared for patients in many facilities where the atmosphere is lively, and patients thrive.
5 Ways to Prevent Ending up in a Nursing Home
Though not all nursing homes are bad and not all stays are permanent stays, nursing homes don't have the best reputation. Many people must pay $5,000 - $25,000 monthly to live in such places, but it’s rarely by choice.
1:10 of us will end up in a nursing home when we become incapable of taking care of ourselves safely at home. The most common reasons are frailty after a fall, a chronic disease such as COPD, CHF, or Parkinson’s Disease, or dementia. Fortunately, most of these are considered preventable conditions, meaning a nursing home stay may also be preventable.
1. Maintain Physical Fitness
Regular physical activity can reduce functional decline by 30%. Just a 10% reduction is often all that’s needed to prevent a nursing home admission.
Exercise or any physical activity improves our cardiovascular stamina, muscle strength, balance, and bone strength. A wrist or hip fracture at age 75 is a challenging condition to recover from because you’ll be bedridden and unable to exercise or socialize, which leads to a rapid decline in muscle mass and cognitive abilities.
Actionable: Healthy aging is a beautiful dance of enjoying life while adding a few pennies to the health jar daily. Walking, cycling, exploring nature walks, and some focused training with exercise bands can go a long way toward preventing nursing home admissions.
2. Prioritize Cardiovascular Health
Most cases of dementia can be traced back to poor cardiovascular health. With enough plaque in the arteries of the heart and brain, conditions like vascular dementia, Alzheimer’s, and strokes diminish our physical independence as we age.
80% of heart disease is preventable. A diet rich in nutrients, minus the ultraprocessed snacks, can support the body’s ability to heal damage to the nerves in the brain and plaque buildup in the arteries.
Actionable: Add more whole foods to your diet and aim for leaner proteins. Learn to identify stress that may lead to unhealthy snacking and try to minimize it. You don’t have to give up your full-moon Twinky.
3. Pay Attention to Cognitive Health
How do we nourish the brain? The first signs of cognitive decline, which we refer to as Mild Cognitive Impairment (MCI), start relatively early, though they are subtle. The goal of healthy aging is to push the eventual decline to frank dementia as far into the future as possible.
1:8 develop dementia, and it’s not a strongly genetic disease, meaning that it’s lifestyle and, therefore, preventable. While it is true that those with higher cognitive baselines tend to have milder dementia symptoms, doing crossword puzzles or playing chess is unlikely to prevent dementia.
Actionable: Focus on staying physically active and socially connected, and don’t give up complex tasks that keep you independent in old age. As we age, we must pay attention to how well we sleep, our mood, and our stress levels and avoid medications or substances that harm our cognitive function.
4. Build Strong Social Bonds
Loneliness is a global issue, as we prioritize productivity and youth over social bonds and quality time with loved ones. If you stay social by having a glass of wine with friends, it’s perhaps better to keep the wine and socialize rather than cut it out.
Our friends, family members, people in the community, and our pets form the social network that helps the central nervous system function properly. From neurotransmitters to hormones, they’re needed for proper cognitive function.
Actionable: Make it a habit to socialize with someone you love daily, paying attention to their needs, noticing your emotions, and appreciating the complex nuances of any interpersonal relationship.
5. Prevent Diabetes & Osteoarthritis
Finally, we have chronic diseases, which make up 20-25% of the causes of nursing home admission. With severe diabetes, organs get damaged, and with osteoarthritis, we lose the ability to move the joints.
Diabetes is strongly preventable, but it’s also easy to acquire in a society where we have a lot of sedentary activities, an abundance of processed foods, and enough stress to fuel a submarine.
Actionable: Aim to maintain a healthy body composition of enough muscle to as little visceral fat as possible. And get enough exercise to prevent the degeneration of a joint. Exercise helps you maintain the function of an arthritic joint, despite what some might think.